Separation. This is why we came to exist here on Earth, to experience the complete opposite of Oneness.
Then we would fully know what Oneness is because we have experienced the opposite, Separation.
Fear, judgment, anger, blame, resentment, bitterness, jealousy…. complete loneliness.
We have all felt these feelings, it can lead to hurting others, because we hurt, and then we turn on ourselves, and that’s even worse. The pain is too real and when you’re in it, it seems like there is no way out.
This is Separation: mental illness, addictions, keeping busy all the time, all forms of abuse, and also denying our different selves we don’t want to see because it’s too painful.
Once we have experienced what we signed up
for we start to realize there’s more to this and we seek to find the learning in order to transform our feelings. We no longer need the separation, we felt the pain, it’s turned into pain and suffering now and that’s not a requirement.
We are given lots of opportunities to wake up and figure it out by creating various dramas and situations in our life to bring it to our attention but we don’t always see it that way, especially if we are in victim-hood.
The thing is, many of us stay victims forever, free will can keep us lost and our spiritual amnesia keeps us from seeing the light and love within. Many eventually find it and sadly some do not and live in fear and separation until the end. There is no right or wrong here, it’s the soul’s choice.
Radical Forgiveness is spiritual technology that helps people to forgive their past, reclaim their present and create their future.
It brings us from separation to oneness.
It brings us from Fear to Love.
It’s a bridge from the 3rd dimension to the 5th.
The idea is simple but radical: Everything happens for a reason, no exceptions, no accidents.
It’s all purposeful and we choose to experience it! Yes, we came here to either balance karmic energies, learn certain life lessons or fulfill missions, such as supporting the world to awaken and shift our consciousness into love.
Earth is our school and our life experiences are our lessons.
AND you don’t have to believe a word of it!
You just need willingness. Willingness to be open to the possibility it might be true… and that’s all it takes to work! Our soul knows and that’s all that is needed.
Radical Forgiveness is for the average person, it’s a step-by-step process, and it’s a tool for seeing the light, making sense of what doesn’t, and having the realization that it’s not all separation in this life.
We just need to start waking up to remember and we will also need to forget the old programming that can run deep. Radical Forgiveness helps us do that.
But wait…..there are some terrible things going on every second in the world! How can we say everything happens for a reason?
Looking at it from the spiritual big picture, that’s the theory, but from the World of Humanity, where we live, it doesn’t seem like it could be true in some cases does it?
All I can tell you is we need to give up the need to know the why and the how, we will never know at our level of consciousness and it works anyway so does it really matter?
Yes I know, it sure would help if we can make sense of things so our rational mind is satisfied.
Here is a quote by my friend, Amanda Perrone, that resonated with me and this idea. “The only way you can make sense of pain is to give it a purpose.”
Let’s share with one another to know we are not alone, let’s have less judgment and forgive because raising our consciousness is what will bring us to love and all that is needed to create a new world based on the love of truth, compassion, faith, justice, peace, and unity.
The rest is just an illusion.
Besides impacting the lives of others to ‘be real and love life’ the most powerful thing about the work I get to do is the reflections of the teachings that come back to me. I always receive some type of wisdom, healing or blessing from the experience, whether it’s a private, group session or a speaking event.
Whatever the message is that I’ve conveyed I am somehow reminded of how it applies to me as well and it guides me towards the next stage of my growth.
Being aware of the subtle messages that are being sent to guide us forward is very empowering.
Last weekend at the Soul Full Day conference, I guided a group of 70 women through a visualization meditation to identify and let go of a fear story holding them back from what they truly wanted for their life, freedom to live their love story.
It was remarkable to witness them releasing the fear and claiming their love stories, seeing and feeling themselves living in the higher potential of their dreams.
This week I’ve been deeply reminded of the fear story that I’ve been carrying, ‘not being well enough to live a fulfilling life because my digestive health is failing’.
This is the same story my grandmother carried, and she died in fear with this story in her which was unconsciously passed on to me, and I accepted it.
For 8 years now I’ve been having various challenges with my digestive health. I’ve seen many different professionals and tried many different remedies and lifestyle changes. Some have worked and some haven’t. Over time things seemed to have mostly settled, then just a month ago the issues flared up again in a bigger way.
This brought up the old fear story for me as I prepare for a trip of a lifetime. I’m going to Egypt on a sacred pilgrimage to the visit the lands and ancient sites with 13 other women. This will be my first trip overseas and I’ve always been fascinated with Egyptian history, never thinking I would get the opportunity to visit until it showed up to me. I was very drawn to go, and decided I was going, even though it felt way outside my ability to be able to take such a trip.
Worries and a wide range of emotions have been coming up for me since these flare ups have been happening. My mind races and makes up stories based in old fears.
What if I am not well enough to fully experience this trip? What if I am stuck in my room and miss the tours, or what if I am not able to digest the food there? All that disappointment and money spent if I might not be able to full experience it.
These stories are very similar to what my grandmother used to tell herself. She was afraid to go far from home, let alone on a plane to another country. Everything centred around her digestive limitations and she was petrified of having an ‘accident’ while out in public. These fear stories debilitated her and she became a hermit and was very lonely in her later years.
I will never forget seeing her in the final days of her life living in fear. I visited her almost every day and seeing her like that was very sad because there wasn’t much I could do other than comfort and reassure her that she would be ok.
What it did do was motivate me to face my own fears and not go down the same path as she did. In this regard, she was a great teacher to me and not long after she transitioned I was divinely guided to take the Radical Forgiveness Master Coach 10 day training in Atlanta.
It was a huge step for me, and again way outside my comfort zone, but in the end it was one of the best things I could have done for myself because it set me on the trajectory of facing my fears, and the journey of living my love story.
I am eternally grateful to be on this path of self-forgiveness and self-acceptance just as I am, and in time I have learned to love myself. I’m still on this healing journey however this year I’ve had some major shifts in this area of my life and feel truly worthy and deserving of this love for myself because I have freedom from the fears.
This is where the synchronicity comes in again.
It just so happens that this Friday, the day I fly to Egypt, is the 9 year anniversary of my grandmother’s passing, and it’s a full moon! You just can’t make these things up. I didn’t realize the mysterious alignment of these dates until just a few weeks ago.
In numerology the number 9 represents endings and completions and I have a strong intuitive feeling that this trip is going to be transformational for me as a new beginning.
The other day when I was dancing my grandmother came to my mind, she was dancing with me, and I know she is leaving me these breadcrumb signs to follow to complete this stage of my journey. I made a promise to her that I was going to end the cycle of fear she carried and commit myself to healing into wholeness.
I have no doubt that this is all happening for me, rather than to me. And unlike my grandmother, I will face my fears and take this trip and I will trust in the divine unfoldment of it all.
I am reminded that everything is always working out for me, even if it doesn’t seem that way and she is cheering me on all along the way.
These are the same phrases I spoke to the women when I was on stage just a few days ago and they echo loudly in my mind as the beautiful blessings of having the freedom to live my love story.
If you would like to experience the guided visualization for yourself listen to the audio recording so you too can be free from your fear story and claim your love story.
In my next blog I will share about my travel adventures so stay tuned, and if you would like to be notified when I share it you can join my email Love Letter list at the bottom of this page.
Until next time… thank you for being here.
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